My Thoughts On Living Wills
Published on March 21, 2005 By Larry Kuperman In Current Events
I do need to preface this with something a bit personal. My brother-in-law died today. His name was Robert Grosse and he was a bright, articulate and well-spoken man. He suffered a stroke, underwent brain surgery and died soon thereafter. So forgive me if I am in a somber mood.

Anyone who knows me, in Real Life (such as it is) or through the blogging or skinning communities that I am proud to belong to, knows my sense of humor. I also like to think of myself as warm, sensitive and caring. It is with this in mind that I tell you that when I lose those qualities, my time has passed.

When I lose the ability to laugh or to make others laugh, I am already dead.

When I can no longer recognize my children (as happened to my beloved mother in the last stages of Parkinson's Disease,) I am already dead.

When I can no longer enjoy the things that make life precious, I am dead.

Death should not be put off with feeding tubes and respirators simply because it CAN be. I believe that we are more than an accumulation of cells that form organs and organs that form bodies. While, for me at least, the jury is still out on whether we are animated by a Holy Spirit or a life spark, there is something more. And when that something is gone, you will know that I am dead.

And no act of Congress, no Presidential seal, will bring that back. Then, let me go.

Comments
on Mar 21, 2005
I agree my fellow blogger, but make sure how you go thru an advanced directive spelling out what YOU WANT done in case of coma, living death veggie situations.
on Mar 22, 2005
I am so sorry about your brother-in-law Larry. Strokes have affected the lives of many of my loved ones. My condolences.

As for your attitude toward the end of "life", I couldn't agree more.
on Mar 22, 2005
Like Jill, I am sorry to hear of the passing of your brother-in-law, Larry. My sympathies to you and your family.

Excellent article.
on Mar 23, 2005
I'm sorry for your family's loss, Larry.
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